Take Breaks When Necessary to Avoid Over Exhaustion

Leslie Guerin • September 3, 2025

Why pacing, pause, and rest are just as important for our clients—and ourselves—as the workout itself.

As teachers, we live in the constant rhythm of cueing, correcting, motivating, and guiding others through movement. We spend hours on our feet, holding energy for the room, and keeping classes flowing. At the same time, we’re role models. What we say, how we demonstrate, and the choices we make in our own bodies communicate to clients more than we realize.

One of the most under-discussed but essential lessons we can model for our clients—and remember for ourselves—is this: take breaks when necessary to avoid overexertion.

Micro-Breaks in Class: The Natural Pause

If you’ve been teaching for any length of time, you’ve seen it:

  • A client in the Hundred quietly drops their head down for a few beats, then picks it back up.
  • During thighwork at the barre, someone pauses mid-burn, shakes out their legs, then jumps back in.
  • A student hangs in forward fold just a little longer before rejoining the group.

These micro-breaks are natural. They’re often all a client needs—a few seconds of release to reset their nervous system, let go of tension, or breathe before re-engaging. As teachers, we don’t need to panic when we see it. In fact, I often encourage it.

But not all “breaks” are created equal. And as teachers, we can help clients (and ourselves) understand the difference between a strategic pause and a necessary step back.

Knowing the Difference: Fatigue vs. Exhaustion

It’s one thing to pause to shake off muscle fatigue; it’s another to ignore genuine exhaustion. This is where our role as teachers expands from technical guidance to thoughtful coaching.

  • Fatigue is expected. Muscles burn, form wavers, focus fades. A mini-break often does the trick.
  • Exhaustion, on the other hand, is deeper. It comes from zero sleep, a packed work schedule, emotional stress, or stacking intense workouts (hello, marathon training or multi-day hikes). In these cases, pushing through doesn’t build strength—it risks breakdown.

Our job isn’t to shame clients into pushing harder. It’s to give them permission to recognize when the best choice is to pace, modify, or even rest.

The Culture of Rest Day Guilt

Here’s the tough truth: rest day guilt is real. Clients (and teachers too) often feel like skipping a workout is failing. We live in a culture that glorifies “never miss a Monday” and “no days off.”

But here’s what I’ve seen over decades of teaching: guilt disappears quickly when comfort shows up. And comfort often arrives in the form of a small movement check-in.

  • A client who skips barre because they’re wrecked might do a 1-minute plank and feel strong, knowing they still connected to their core.
  • Someone who takes a rest day from Reformer might bang out 20 push-ups and feel reassured they’re not “losing ground.”
  • For me, comfort can come from a quick stretch, a walk, or a few Pilates bridges—something that connects me back to movement without draining energy.

The point is: rest days don’t have to mean zero movement. They can mean choosing comfort over exertion. That’s not laziness—it’s wisdom.

Teaching Clients Ownership of Their Breaks

As teachers, we can normalize breaks as part of the training process, not an interruption. That starts with the language we use.

Instead of:

  • “Don’t stop!”
  • “Push through, no breaks!”

Try:

  • “Listen to your body—take a pause if you need to.”
  • “Shake it off, then jump back in when you’re ready.”
  • “Rest is part of the work.”

We can also highlight how breaks can be used strategically:

  • In thighwork, pausing to stretch the quads before rejoining.
  • In arm series, setting weights down for a few reps, then picking them up again.
  • In abdominal work, choosing to focus on controlled breathing instead of reps for a cycle.

When we model and permit ownership of breaks, clients feel empowered to trust their bodies. That’s how longevity in movement is built.

Teacher to Teacher: Don’t Forget Yourself

And here’s the kicker: we teachers are often the worst offenders. We preach balance but skip our own rest days. We say “take care of your body” while stacking on classes, privates, workshops, and training hours until there’s no space left.

I’ve been there—overextended, running on fumes, telling myself I’ll “rest later.” But the truth is, breaks are what allow us to show up fresh, inspired, and strong for our clients. Without them, burnout is inevitable.

So here’s my gentle reminder to you, teacher-to-teacher:

  • Take the nap.
  • Cancel the extra workout.
  • Stretch instead of sprint.
  • Say no when your schedule (and your body) is already full.

You won’t lose credibility by resting—you’ll gain longevity in your teaching career.

Finding Your Comfort

Rest looks different for everyone. For some, it’s a full day off with zero movement. For others, it’s an active recovery walk or light stretching. For me, it often means giving myself permission to scale back instead of power through.

I find comfort in small, grounding movements when guilt creeps in: a plank, some push-ups, a spinal twist. They remind me that I’m still in my body, still strong, still committed—but I’m honoring my energy for the long haul.

That’s what I encourage my clients (and fellow teachers) to do as well: find your comfort, lean in, and release the guilt.

Because at the end of the day, the break you take today may be the very thing that keeps you moving for decades to come.


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Why the Regular Bra Doesn’t Work for Pilates A traditional bra is designed with one goal: to shape and support breasts under everyday clothing. Most are structured with: Rigid underwires that press against the ribcage. Narrow straps that dig into the shoulders. Hook closures that create pressure points along the spine. Materials meant for aesthetics, not breathability or movement. That’s fine when you’re sitting at a desk or going out for dinner. But once you lie down on a Pilates mat and start rolling, curling, flexing, and twisting, all of those design features work against you. Here’s why: Spinal Discomfort – Pilates mat work involves a lot of supine (lying on your back) positions. The hook-and-eye closure digs into your spine, making it impossible to fully relax into the mat. That constant pressure leads to tension and pain. Restricted Movement – Underwires and rigid fabrics restrict natural rib expansion. Pilates breathing is three-dimensional—it requires your ribs to expand outward and back into the mat. A stiff bra limits this, creating shallow breath and less effective core engagement. Strap Pressure – Narrow straps dig into your shoulders during roll-ups, teasers, or any exercise where arms are overhead. Over time, this creates tension in your neck and upper back, distracting you from the precision Pilates demands. Compromised Flow – Pilates is about finding flow and ease. If you’re constantly adjusting straps or wincing at a clasp digging into your back, you’re not flowing—you’re fidgeting. The Importance of Costume Choices in Pilates Joseph Pilates himself often referred to “contrology” as an art form, not just an exercise method. He cared about alignment, grace, and the whole-body experience. What you wear is part of that experience. Think of it as your “costume” for the role you’re playing in class: a student committed to moving with control, precision, and awareness. If your outfit is working against you—pinching, digging, or restricting—you’re not able to embody the method fully. When we talk about costume choices, we’re not talking about fashion statements or brand labels. We’re talking about gear that supports your physical comfort, safety, and performance . What to Wear Instead The good news? There are better options—gear that is designed for movement, breath, and spinal health. Sports Bras with Wide Bands Choose bras without clasps or underwires. Wide, flat bands distribute pressure evenly so there’s no digging when you lie on your back. Look for materials that are stretchy but supportive, allowing ribcage expansion. Straps that Support, Not Dig Racerback or cross-back straps often provide better distribution and freedom of movement. Adjustable but wide straps help customize fit without cutting into your shoulders. Seamless Designs A seamless sports bra reduces irritation from seams or hardware. The smooth surface also means less distraction when rolling or twisting. Breathable Fabrics Moisture-wicking fabrics keep you comfortable, especially in longer classes or when working deeply into your core. Breathability supports better skin comfort and prevents overheating. How the Right Gear Elevates Performance Some may wonder: “Isn’t Pilates gentle enough that it doesn’t matter?” Actually, it’s precisely because Pilates is subtle, precise, and deeply connected to body awareness that gear matters even more. When you’re wearing the right bra and clothing: You breathe better. Your ribs can expand, making core activation more effective. You move better. Nothing digs, pulls, or distracts you. You focus better. Your mind stays on alignment, not discomfort. You recover better. Less unnecessary tension means less strain post-class. Pilates is about efficiency. Every detail—your posture, your focus, your gear—affects how efficient your practice is. The Back Connection Why do I emphasize the back specifically? Because back pain is one of the most common reasons clients come to Pilates. When you wear a traditional bra in class, the hooks and underwires don’t just cause temporary discomfort—they can exacerbate chronic back tension. Imagine lying on a hard clasp for a 50-minute class: your muscles subtly guard and tighten around that pressure the entire time. That’s the opposite of what Pilates is meant to achieve. Pilates builds a strong, supported back by improving spinal mobility, core stability, and posture. Don’t undermine that by placing an uncomfortable piece of hardware directly under your spine. A Personal Note as a Teacher As someone who has been teaching Pilates and Barre for over 26 years, I’ve seen every wardrobe choice imaginable. I’ve seen clients show up in jeans, in slippery socks, in bras with enough underwire to set off airport security. And every single time, their experience was compromised—not because they lacked strength or effort, but because their clothing was working against them. When I suggest a gear change, it’s never about judgment. It’s about giving clients the best chance to feel what Pilates really offers. Once someone experiences the difference—lying comfortably on the mat, breathing freely, moving without distraction—they never go back. The Mental Shift: Valuing Your Practice Here’s the bigger picture: choosing the right gear isn’t just about avoiding pain. It’s about valuing your practice enough to set yourself up for success. You wouldn’t show up to a dance performance in stiff jeans. You wouldn’t run a marathon in flip-flops. And you shouldn’t come to Pilates mat in a regular bra. Your costume matters because your practice matters. Conclusion Pilates is about creating strength, balance, and freedom in the body. 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